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I was just thinking about this the other day randomly..

If someone is a loser what makes them a loser? What is the difference between a nerd, loser and a loner? o.0 I am confused. Is a loner the same thing as a loser? Is a loser considered a nerd? Is geek and nerd even the same thing? Ugh..sheesh update me here I'm totally confused

In school people compare other people which I never really understood because in my mind people are always the same and equal.

I am glad you believe everyone is equal. People compare people to what they see them as.

if a female gets a high grade on a test she is sleeping with the teacher and is such a prep. if a make gets a high grade on a test he is a nerd and eww gross and dirty. Okay! They study to get those grades maybe they need the scholarship because their family doesnt have much money and they need that to go to school and get a good grade.

if a person likes to be alone at school because they want to concentrate on their school work. omg, he/she is such a loner i would never want to be in their shoes everyone hates them.
No, not everyone hates them just the person saying that hates them. Maybe they have the best social life outside of school..

Someone can be a loser by the way they dress, what they read, what they eat, how they run..for stupid reasons people call them a loser.

It is very rare to see someone just walk up to someone and ask them how their day is. At school everyone (mostly) are followers. They rather keep their jerky friends then go and make friends with the kid sitting alone at the lunch table. Believe it or not SCHOOL is the worse place to be when it comes to making friends. As long as you stay the way you are for accepting people as they are you will be rewarded in the long run..

kk i hope this makes sence haha. umm let me know kk

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