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During the summer, I met this guy. And for months we have been hanging out, and our relationship is growing very strong. The problem is, I'm 14, and he's 17.. And he's leaving for university next year, so we've decided that we're not going to become boyfriend and girlfriend, just be a couple.. Well, the thing is, he wants to go all the way with me.. And I don't know if i'm ready! I'm still a virgin and I don't know how I can be sure that I trust him enough, to know he's not just using me for a piece of "skin" please help!!

It seems like you have a pretty mature relationship with him, and that you know what you're getting into, so I'm not going to lecture you or anything. If you think you might regret it at all, don't do it. If it's really what you want to do, then go for it and don't worry about it not being right. It just seems like strange because why would he want to go all the way right before he leaves? Have you made plans to be serious later when he's back from college or anything? Maybe you should talk to him a little more and find out what his intentions are.

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(Rating: 4) You're absolutely right! Thank you very much. I'm thinking really hard about this, and you've made a really good point! Thanks!
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