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i just want to keep myself annonymous to any one who might know my regular user name (which is my nickname) but a little about me is i love to play my guitar alot, skateboarding, snowboarding and trying to help people even though i suck at putting the words in the right order to make it say what i'm thinking -_-
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Okay so I'm 18 and in college. I'm also a gay male. Well I found this really sweet guy! He always makes me smile. Well there is this other guy who i really don't see like that at all, but he is so protective of me and he knows exactly what im thinking and no one else ever can, so that's like a turn on. This first guy i like though is very confusing, he acts different around certain people. Okay like if he's with me he acts like someone different, when he's with some one else he acts totally different! Now his best friend has been saying the same thing about him. like he's not comfortable with who he is, so he has to act the way everyone else is around him. He's more of a follower. Now me I love who i am, and if you don't like me i could care less. But him, he's doesn't have any self confidence at all. He's just confusing, should i even waste my time on him?? (link)
Acting is like Lying, being not who you are is not fair to the other people around you as it gives a false image/personality. if you took the time to really get to know this guy im sure he would open up more to you in way that is much mroe fair and comfortable. i think the reason why he acts up is because he doesnt think he is like-able as he is.

normally i go on for ages but i cant think of another explaination :S its not somthing i have exprienced very often at this point in my life although i am only 18 as you are.

hopefully i helped a bit
#~Matt~#


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Thanks! that really did help =]




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