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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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This has been a problem for 4 years, and i still havent gotten over it becasuse my bestfriend is still dating him. it gets worse. shes been my best friend for 6 years now. she doesnt act like herself and all they do is fight. they claim theyre in love but shes never had a serious boyfriend other than him so i dotn think she knows what love is because its definately not that. she tells me everything and all they do is fight. im not here to ask you for what i hsould do to make them break up because what ever she wants to do, she can do it. im asking who she thinks is more important me or him. she wont answer my texts even when theyre important and when i call her because i need her she wont answer. but oh if her boyfriend texts/calls her shes on it in a second. its not like its a new little puppy love, theyve been dating on and off for 4 years. this entire day shes been acting weird and so short with me. and i ask her what she was doing and she said she was with him all day even when we had plans. i told her i had to tell her somethings that happened with me like good stories and she doesnt frikin care anymore. i dont know what to do and she doesnt treat me like a friend. its her boyfriend taht changes her like this, because when theyre not dating, she actually tries to make our friendship work. like how i am litterally holding it together right now. i dont know what to do and im wondering, who does she care about more.
I've been a situation like this before. Maybe he is more important to her then you, sometimes when people are in relationships they get so caught up in eachother and like eachother so much they forget about their other good friends. & i don't think its him doing this. when their not dating, well shes not talking to him, so obviously shes going to talk to you & everything. its not him, so don't blame him, because i really doubt its his fault. he doesn't control her, she is the one who is capable of texting you, calling you, hanging out with you, & whatever else. have you tried talking to her about this? try telling her how you feel & if you can set up some time where you two can just hang out, in the mean time, make some new friends..
hope i helped, & hope everything works out. :)
(Rating: 4) thank you for that, and the only reason why i blame him is because of the mean terrible things hes done to her in the past. i have focused on my other friends more. and the sad thing is is that ive tried talking to her about this and she wont respond... even like really meaningful messages i leave her she wont respond back to, so idk what to do. but thank you so much.