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Okay i am a 13/f and i want to have sex with my bf. We have known each other since pr-k. We have been dating for almost 3 months and things are getting to be really serious. i always told people i was going to stay a virgin until i get married but i dont think i can do it anymore. He worships the ground i walk on and he isnt like most 13 year old boys. He loves me for me and we have grown up togather so he knows everyhting i have been through. I want to have sex with him and he only wants to if i want to. i do but i dont want my parents not to trust me anymore i have told my mom about it and she said just to let her know. i did and she flipped so what do i do... Please help AND FAST!!
REPLY TO FEEDBACK: Well there are many ways to express love without having sex, for instance if you want to experiment with hand jobs & stuff like that, it can get interesting. Do you have a store called Spencers by you? It basically has a bunch of 'toys' that you guys can use, and there's no age limit on buying their products. I'm sure if there's no Spencers, there's another store like it, just check your local mall. Besides that, you can text each other different sexual things, if you're into that kinda thing. It can be as intimate as you like.
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I understand you completely. But think about this before you have sex... Once you loose your virginity, it's gone forever. If this boy worships the ground you walk on, why not wait? what's the rush? if you know that the two of you are gonna be together for a long time, why start now? take your time!
Also, losing your virginity is what a lot of girls regret, and most of the time it's not because they did it with the wrong guy, it's because they did it at the WRONG TIME. they feel slutty and loose because they decided at an early age that they were going to have sex.
Anyway, as for your parents, they wont trust you if they find out. That's how parents are...there's really nothing you can do about that except wait, and not have sex. Your mom is right to flip out, you're young. So just give it some time. You've waited this long, it's not gonna hurt to wait a little longer. Just consider that. My best friend lost her virginity to the man she's been with for 10 years, and they're still together but she regrets having sex so young. She says she wasn't prepared even though she felt that she was.
Whatever you choose, just remember that no one's pressuring you into it, especially your bf, which is really lucky. Hope I helped.
(Rating: 5) Thanks you really helped me out. I understand that my parents maybe mad and stuff, they have the right to. But is there anything else we can do to show each other we love on another. If you would please reply you have helped me alot.