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alright, I'm pretty confused.

today, I had a stomach ache for a little while which felt like period cramps. I'm not due until around the 8th (it's the 31st).

so, today, while my boyfriend was fingering me, I looked onto my underwear to see it was damp with this brown color all over the pad area.

I didn't think anything of it, so I changed my underwear and then we proceeded to have sex. however, i noticed that on my new pair of underwear I had two tiny brown spots .. I thought it was an early sign of my period.

however, no blood showed up on the condom or anything, but somehow the blanket got in the way of us and a whole streak of what looked like the same color of my spotting was on it. I don't understand why its spotting on my underwear, but its also internally, yet it didn't show up on the condom or anything.

like I mentioned, I should be getting my period within the week, but its just weird and I havent experienced something exactly like this.

With the information given, I do have a few guesses. When I was fingered a few times before, afterwards I started to get spotting, probably because my hymen may have broke, or damaged some vaginal tissue. Spotting happens when that occurs.

Also, another possibility is you can start your period earlier than expected. That happens. It seems you can be a little more than a week early which is very common and it's normal. Cramps somewhat adds it up.

A third possibility is maybe pregnancy? I don't know if you could be pregnant or not. You don't list any information saying you could be. But just in case, that could be implantation bleeding, which is when you get a few spots of blood (or brown discharge) on your underwear and then it's the end of it.

I can assume pregnancy is not very likely, but the other two assumptions can be plausible.

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(Rating: 5) yeah, my boyfriend and I are very safe about the sex.. thankfullyyy.

but thank you soo much for your answer, i feel a lot more relieved.. (:
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