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hey i liked the advice you've given me before :) soo..

i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night flirting and hanging out? what do you think of this situation? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.

17/f, 17/m
thanks so much for your time.

oh and we were together for about 9 months, if that helps. and we met in the summer and starting dating in the summer.

It depends on how much his feelings have changed. If he still has feelings for you in that way, there's probably a chance that he could end up falling for you again. If he is completely sure that he just wants to be friends, though, it might be a good idea to not do anything too romantic, or it could make him uncomfortable. In my experience, the best thing you can do, especially if you two will be alone together, is to just act like he's just a friend to you. Act like you have no feelings toward him other than in a friendly way. It could make him miss the way things used to be.

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(Rating: 5) thanks...he told me that he loves me more than a friend but not enough to be in a relationship with..does this change anything?


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