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I have been with this guy for a few months and we've friends for a few years. Our relationship is different from most people our age,we don't play games and we both know that we'll always be together. I really love him but a lot of things have been happening lately that I'm worried about. Tell me what you think;
He gets mad really easily and says that he's not good enough for me and he's an idiot and all that.
When he gets upset he really hurts me, he'll just leave without saying goodbye and he won't come over.
He always thinks that I don't care about him as much as he cares about me and that he shows me how much he loves me but I act like I don't love him.
HELP! Has anyone ever been with a guy that does these things?

He could be really self-conscious, or possibly be having doubts about the relationship. He could be telling you he's not good enough for you, so that maybe you'll start thinking that & break up with him. I could be wrong, though. The best thing you can do is talk to him. Explain to him that you really care about him, & you want to be with him, & that the way he's acting really hurts you.

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