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ok i need serious help. I'm in love with my boyfriend, but the way he's acting is ridiculous.
the other night someone told him that i had started smoking again, he fliped and took my ciggarettes and then yelled at me for not coming to him first. He is so convinced that i'm going to cheat on him with one of my brothers friends that he had a panic attack that put him in the hospital. He wont let me go around my bro. and he is constantly reminding me of how i started smoking behind his back. He told someone behind my back that i dress like a slut around other people(a turtle neck is slutty to him). He went through my fone and called eveyone who txted me!
Thats just the bad though.
i absolutley adore him. i'm in love with him. He's always calling just to say i love you and he always makes sure im comfortable.

but apparently the way he's treating me has caused my best friend to stop talking to me until i leave him because my BFF is tired of me being treated like this.

What should i do!?
PLLLEEEAAASSSEEE HEELLLLP ASAP

Thank you
Love always ~heather

You probably don't want to hear this, but you may need to leave him. He obviously has serious trust issues, & trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship. Not to mention he's calling you a slut behind your back when he's supposed to love you. And no guy should come between you & your family. You should be able to talk to your brother.

This sounds like the start of what could potentially be an abusive relationship. If you really don't want to leave him for good, maybe tell him that he needs to get help & that you two can get back together when he straightens himself up. But honestly, if he won't, get out now while you still can. If you stay with him, chances are it'll be a lot harder for you to leave him, & he could start abusing you (I know this from experience).

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, it helps me alot.


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