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15/f
Alright well my boyfriend of two months has lied to me twice before. I got over it and we started over and he told me he would never lie to me again. Well i always have people come up to me and tell me things about him and if they have heard anything nad about him or something bad he did. Today, someone came up to me and told me he went to a party not to long ago and got drunk. The thing is, he never told me he went to a party. When i confronted him about it, he said he only stayed for 15 min. and somebody put whiskey into his mountain dew and he didnt know about it. He got drunk by "accident." So i was really hurt that he didnt even tell me this and he said he didnt tell me because he didnt want to lose my trust. Well according to that stroy, he already has. I still like him a whole lot and i dont want to break up with him but he cant be keepong stuff like that from me. He needs to tell me these things and it hurts when he dosent. He knows this and i have told him. Now, i have no idea what to do. Please help asap. thanks!
If I were you, I'd leave him. One chance is enough in my eyes. It's obvious you can't trust him (which I don't blame you for), & trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship. But if you're not ready to break up with him, you need to put your foot down. Tell him enough is enough. If he does something wrong, he needs to tell you because you're tired of having to hear it from someone else. Tell him it only makes it worse when someone else tells you instead of him, & if it happens again you'll leave him. And follow through with it! If he does it again & you stay with it, chances are he'll keep this behavior up because he knows you'll always forgive him.
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thanks (:
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