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3 months into going out w my boyfriend things got very heated and we tried to have sex. we were both kissing completely naked. i went to move foward sexually but i noticed he wasnt hard. he tried to help the and get himself hard but that didnt seem to work either. after a few more tries at seducing him i stopped and asked him if anything was wrong. he said no and that he didnt know what was going on so we left it at that. the next day we talked about it ad he said it had only happened once bfore with his first girlfriend and that he was sorry and embarrassed and didnt know what to say. i have a low self esteem so it hit me pretty hard and i thought i was the problem, even though that had never happened to me bfore with any other guy, but after talking to my girlfriends they made me feel as though it was something normal that happens to every guy once in a while. a couple months after that we tried again. this time he got hard only after i gave him oral sex and after i stopped i continue just kissing him and he went soft again so he asked me to do it once more. I did so and he got hard again, but as soon as he put the condom on to move foward, he got soft once more. we've been dating for 5 months now and honestly im terrified of trying again because i really dont know whats wrong. does anyone have anyy idea what it could be?? or what i should do?? or what i can say?? this has Never happened to me before and i really enjoy sex so i really hope i can figure this out soon! thanks! (link)
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Hey im 17 and a guy. iv been with one girl who ever gone further than kissing she grabbed me down there and i was semi hard but not full. i was very nervous though like shakey nervous. Is he a nervous kind of guy when he goes out of his comfort zone? BEing nervous somtimes makes mr,wiggley not wanna stand up for a standing ovation heh heh.
hope i helped a little ;D gd luck next time.
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thanks! its sso helpful to hear from a guy!
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