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Q: hi me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago, and we both climaxed while i was on top. when i got off, the condom was still inside me. but, he took it out right away, and the sperm was still in the condom. but it also came on his finger. he washed his hands and everything, but later on that evening he fingered me. im a week away from my period and im feeling very nauseous, bloated, breasts are very tender, and i have diarrhea. i also have cysts, and i know from previous times that i usually get nauseous before my period because of the cysts. what do you guys think? sings of pregnancy, or PMS? thanks. im terrified.
It's very possible that you're pregnant, but it's too soon to know for sure using just the symptoms you described.

Could just be that your nerves are causing your problems.

Still, you should definitely see a doctor and get a blood test done (it's much more accurate than a urinalysis).

Try not to get upset. It isn't good for you, and if you are pregnant it's especially bad to stay nervous and sick.

Either way, best of luck. Remember that pregnancy isn't the end of the world... just the beginning of a very different one (not without its charms).

thanks. although since i come from a strict south asian family, pregnancy will be the end of the world for me.

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