ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.
but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come on and just not talk to him, cause i just have a feeling he wont im me and ill be let down. please, any suggestions. i dont want to cry anymore over someone who could potentially be wasting my time.
I agree. Leaving him hanging is like the ultimate test. If he really likes you, it'll probably kill him that you're not talking to him.
Before I started dating my boyfriend, we were just friends, & I felt like I was always the one initiating conversations, so one morning I left my phone in my room, went in the other room for a few hours, & when I came back, he had sent me about 10 texts asking if I was mad at him, then he said he's coming over, shortly after he came to my house & we started dating.
I don't know what the deal is with guys sometimes, but if he doesn't start talking to you, don't waste your time. You could be out having a lot of fun without worrying about him.
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thank you very much, im having trouble dealing with the situation, but i will take your advice and use it :)
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