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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, and we've had oral a lot, but when it comes to full on sex, it just wont go in. =| i dont know why! im pretty sure im too tight, but what should i do, we have condoms and everything, but it just wont go in.. i donno, maybe we arent trying hard enough, but we are usually just in the mood, and really want to, but it wont work?! (yes i realize this is pretty embrassing, but i really dont care, i dont get awkward, or embrassed)

I had the same experience when I lost my virginity. Make sure you're 100% ready, because if you're not, you probably won't be able to relax. If you are, just relax as much as possible, lots of foreplay, & lube it up. Another thing that helped for me was to have him take it really slow, like start by putting the tip in, then sit there for a second & relax, then have him slowly put it further in.

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