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Okay!!! ( long... question!! Sorry! )

Well... I FINALLY told the guy I like (Matt) EAXCTLY how I felt about him last night. We were talking (texting...) each other back and forth. I told him... that I loved him ... and that I really did. He told me that he has a girl friend ... and he likes me as a friend and nothing more. I felt awful and embarrased!! I told him... I was crying and I was hurt. He talked to me and we worked everything out. So... he's my FRIEND and ONLY my friend, but I STILL love him. I really care for him 2. I have no idea how 2 get over him.Do you think that maybe ... just maybe he'll like me?? Also...I think I am starting 2 like my crush ...from last year again.(Tanner ) He's nice and funny... but not as sweet as Matt. Should , I go for Tanner? I can talk to him ... okay... but ... I don't want to ruin our friendship, my friends asked him out for me last year... a lot and all the times he said no. I think maybe he MIGHT like me... we laugh and stuff all the time... were buddy-buddy , I think were closer this year. What do you think I should do? I think I should try 2 get over Matt... and go for Tanner. If, you think so ... how should I ask him out? Thanks, and I am sorry this question is so long!!!

Thanks for who ever try's to help !!

I'm really sorry that things didn't go so well with your friend, but don't let that get you down. You're young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Most people don't like to hear this, but it's best to take your time before jumping into a relationship. You may get lonely, but it's better than dating someone only to realize down the road that they are not someone you like being with. I'd say just take your time, have fun with your friends, & eventually you'll find someone.

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