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Q: Well...If you hadn't read my other questions, this is a short summary.
I am a senior (high school) and I like this guy..We have been really good friends since like august (even though we knew each other before..offically started talking august) I thought he liked me..but i was wrong.

This past sunday we went out to eat and he told me he just got a girlfriend..since 3 days...and hes known her since july...I smile and acted all happy for him even though i was crying on the inside. I swear i have never felt this way..I didn't even start crying until i woke up the next morning. I knew i wasn't ever gunna tell him how i felt cuz it always ruins the friendship..and thats all guys ever see me as...is a friend...so i guess that's all we are..and that's better than nothing...but i wanted something more.

I don't know how to feel..I don't know what to think...and my crying is different...all i have are tears out of my eyes...no sound at all..i must be really hurt.

What should I do?

Well you have two options.
One, you can be friends with this guy. If you cant be his girlfriend, and you cant not talk to him, then atleast your able to be in his presence.
Or.
Two, you can tell him how you feel, unless he's told you that he doesn't like you, then you really cant judge how he feels. You can always give it that chance, and even if he does tell you he doesnt feel the same, tell him you don't want nothing to happen to your friendship.
Sure you'll act weird at first, but time heals everything.

I hope I've helped.
I really don't want to tell you what to do in this situation, mainly because, I don't want to be the reason for your mistake.
I just want to give you your options.

Rating: 5

thanks for being the only one to asnwer that question..but after i cried..i felt so much better..and even though its my hardest crush..it was most easy to get over cuz..girlfriends are temporary..but friends are forever..so when shes gone..i will still be here..^^..He will prolly never know how i feel about him..and in some weird way..i'm okay with it.

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