Good day everyone.
I am a nursing student. My ultimate goal is to be a travel nurse.
I am happily married for over 12 years and have 3 children: ages 6, 4, and 2. Family is the most important thing in the world and I want to help families work out problems so they do not have to be torn apart.
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today i cheated on my boyfriend of 8 months (don't tell me im a skank or anything like that because i obviously think i made a big mistake)
i was at my ex's house, seeing his sister and we sat down on his bed when his sis was downstairs, well he kissed me when i turned around and then i kissed back and i kept telling him no and i dont want to but he like kept guilt tripping me and saying nice things like i have pretty eyes and stuff well one thing let to another and we had sex for like a minute and he ended up cumming ha and like he didnt even tell me he was going to or anything he claims he took it out before he did but i dont know..
what do i do from here i seriously do love my boyfriend a lot and i want to stay with him but i dont know what to do next or who to tell or what to say?
please help me! (link)
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You need to take a step back and reexamine your feelings for both of these boys. Sex is not an accident. You could have stopped this other boy if you truely wanted to. You don't accidentally have sex with someone because they tell you you have pretty eyes. Something, perhaps subconscious said you wanted it, regardless of your saying no. If you live your boyfriend as much as you say then you realize he deserves better.
This is no longer about you, it is about your boyfriend. He has the right to know so he can make the choice to stay with you or not. You have already proven you cannot be trusted in the face of temptation. Your ex likely knows you have a boyfriend but did not respect that. He likely would not think twice about bragging to your boyfriend. Finding out from your ex will only hurt even more. He deserves the choice of moving on to someone he can trust or staying with you and trying to work things out.
I know this is probably not what you were hoping to hear but when you make mistakes you have to face the consequences. Accidents happen, but sex is not an accident.
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