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Good day everyone.

I am a nursing student. My ultimate goal is to be a travel nurse.

I am happily married for over 12 years and have 3 children: ages 6, 4, and 2. Family is the most important thing in the world and I want to help families work out problems so they do not have to be torn apart.

If your family is as important to you as mine is to me, get the help you need. If you do not like my advice, I respect that but look for someone that works for your needs.

Your family is worth it!
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Home maker/ nursing student
Age: 31
Member Since: October 26, 2007
Answers: 223
Last Update: September 27, 2011
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Im 17 by the way. Sorry to leave that out. Thank you so much for clearing that up. I really thought something was wrong with me. My mom was being serious, because now she thinks I need to go to the doctor. How many times do you ovulate? Im 17 and I've had a period since I was 10 and this is the first time this has ever happened? Its it rare? Or do you just not ovulate as much as you have periods?


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i would def. like to discuss this more.. and thanks for the advice i jus dnt no where to start.


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Thanks a lot, you're absolutely right. By the way, I'm 18, since I forgot to mention. Again, thank you.


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thank you so much, !


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Thank you sooooo muchh!!!!!!


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not only have you made my perception a little bit clearer, but you also made me laugh with those scenerios. i know they weren't meant to be comical, but the whole "where's daddy?" and "joebob"...i'm easily amused. thanks so much.


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Thank you darling :)


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Thanks so so so so so so so much!!!!


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Thanks<3


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Thanks. This was very helpful. I have considered the librarian route before. I have always thought about teaching, and law school (though scary & intimidating) is also something I have thought about. Thank you. Your advice was very helpful.


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Thanks!


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thanks


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well when we first started seeing each other we were happy i didn't know he was like this untill he got kick out from his dads place, i know he has to leave my house because i am feeling even more dret now i dont feel love anymore or that little spark whne i see him i sometimes feel like we are gust "Fuck buddies" more then anything else i feel he is more of a friends now. I do care for him and i understand my mom when seh says their are better guys out their to meet and that i shouldnt be tied down now at such a young age, because i like to hang out with guys and flirt but am restricted rom that now, and when i see other guys i think what a good person they may be if i got to know them. I know to trust my mom mroe then anything els but it hurst to her hear bad talking him behind his back infront of me with her Bf... to me i know what they are saying is true he is not good with money, he is not really an active guy who is fit. I think i am looking for a guy that is more willing to help himself and who takes care of himself and wont push his Gf into doing anything. But also what makes it hard for me to do or try to do it tell him because sometimes i am not sure if i want to be with him or that i do wnat to be with him, but like i said their is like i find no spark left an i find he does manipulate me and bug me when i am trying to do HW a lot. also the fact he is my kinda of frist serious thing in a relation ship, my friend who i was kinda with for 2 monthes even treated me better then he is,....:(*cry* I think thought that you are right and that we do need some time alone or that we are better off friends then anything els because i do not think i am ready for the long haul like he is. i gust need some feed back about thins to see what i should do, because even my mom says i deserve better that i shouldnt be with him.... PLZ HELP


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thank you so much for your advice. i wish I could give you a rating better than 5 because your reply helped me out soo much. I ended up calling my doctor and she told me to pump and see how much milk comes out. turns out it wasn't enough for my son because i had had complications and wasn't able to breastfeed him for a while which really messed up with my milk supply. if you have any advice on how to increase my milk supply please share.. :)


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thank you and it really isnt fair that those whom dont want to be parents yet just get pregnant. i have never done that douche plus i read about it and doctors really dont reccomend doing it all thank you for your help


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Thank you so much! This helped a lot! :)


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Thank you so much


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My GOSH! You are awesome for providing me with such a good answer. I REALLY appreciate it, because you gave me a lot of insight on this subject. I WILL be using your advice, but once again thank you so much. Good luck and God bless your kids :] -Uniq


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Ah, thank you so much, this was amazing advice. The stupid comments were aimed at the people who'd like to tell me to grow up and so on. Once again, thank you very much!


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thanks for the try. did u just put into a translation-online box? some of it doesnt really makes sense. but thanks for taking ur tme to do it!


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Thank you so much for your answer. You raised some great questions, some that I hadn't thought of myself. My biggest reason for wanting Daniel to go to a prestigious law school is that he has expressed that he might want to get into politics. He really loves it and understands it, and he would be a wonderful, upright politician. I have no doubt that if he did go to a podunk law school that he would still be a fabulous lawyer, but a prestigious degree makes it easier to get into politics (I know, everyone wants one more lawyer as a politician, lol...). I actually do have a couple things tying me to Lexington, at least for one year. In 2010, I'm planning on going to a well-known, thorough spring-time internship located there, then in the fall, I'm signed up as a volunteer to work at the FEI World Equestrian Games. And as for kids, I think the huge responsibility frightens me the most. At least parenting is shared, but with pregnancy, the mother is solely responsible. I don't take great care of myself now--I eat and drink what I want, exercise only if have time, if I don't get enough sleep it's okay, I avoid going to the doctor; a pregnant mom can't do that, but I don't know any other way to be. And to be perfectly honest, I tend to be a selfish and anal person, and I like things done my way (I'm not an only child, but you would think so, haha). I am aware that kids change all of that, and while I might be willing to sacrifice it in the future, right now I am enjoying focusing on me--getting myself through college, working jobs because I enjoy them, choosing what I do with my time, things like that. Anyway, thanks so much for the response. You can be sure if I have any questions in the future, I will bring them to you!


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It makes me feel better knowing with your second child it took you 9 months. This will be our second baby and a stubborn one at that. We have only been trying for 3 but thank you a toN!!


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you dont even no, loser


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Thank you sooo very much. I'm not so much worried about the computer learning, just drawing because I can't do that, and I knew that you can do designs on the computer. Thank you soo much for everything :D


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omg, u r so smart!


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awww thank you!! yours by far helped the most.


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wow. thank you so much for going the extra mile to help me out!!!


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thank you, you have a very good point and i think this helps me a lot :]


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Aww, thanks! I feel MUCHH better now. Phew! Hahaa, thanks so much :DD


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thank you soooo much!! =] yeah snogging means making out and 'on the pull' means your looking for someone to make out with. =] thanks again.


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i get where your coming from and the poem is nice!! xxxx


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I am loving your advice. I saw on your column it said psychology. Thats what im wanting to study in college. And i completely agree on the personality thing. Because he can be hot, but have an ego the size of saturn and be a complete and udder jerk. So i look at both! thanks for the luck!!


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I really appreciate your answer, and thank you so much for helping me as much as you could. Just to let you know I am 19 and my sister is 23. You have given me lots to ponder about and given me great answers and advice on who/what I should focus on. AGAIN, Thank You so much. I might be asking you more questions in the future. And I really DO appreciate all the thought you put into your answer. Bye for now BeLLe


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Thank-you your advice is really appreciated it was very insightful.


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thx so much...im gonna ask him when he goes online :)


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thanks a ton it helped alot


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Thanks! &hearts;


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Thank you for helping me. Your advice really did help.


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Thank you so much :]


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wow, thank you sooo much! you have helped immensly! I am still a bit unsure on what i want to do, and am infact scared, a little bit, but i really hope that i can do what i want, and live my dream, as you have/are. i think that it is amazing how you help people, and i dont mind you going on at all. as far as the subject focus goes, i am not too sure yet, but i hope to figure it out. I DO have 4 years still :-] thanks again! i will not hesitate to ask you a question if i need anything, and i know i can confide in you for an honest answer. :-]


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That was the best peice of advice i've ever heard. But when i said 'father', i meant her father, not the child's. But thank you so much. You're the best advice columnists ever!!


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wow, thanks alot, you really helped...and it makes sense.


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thanks. i was just curious. im not planning on doing it anytime soon.


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ThankYouuu :D


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thanks. I truly do appreciate the answers you gave me, and the time you took on it.I have to comment on how wonderfully you talk thinks out with not all the information provided. You give beautiful advise. It has mad me think. Thank you and i wish you success.


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Out of all the advice that was given... yours had to be the most helpful. I also give advice on this website. But when it came to this i needed advice from someone else. The thing with the other girl happened some time ago. but i also dont know if he is stil doing it or not. I know that he would not physically cheat on me but i dont like the fact that he is lying to me about going to the websites. I have decided that i would talk to him about it and i will let you know how it goes. check out my column sometime... its dimples3665 and thanks again for your help


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Thankyou x


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Firstly.. CONGRATULATINOS Secondly.. Thankyou x


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thanx this really helped. i plan to got to a pre school for my work experience :)


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Thank you so so so so much. It helped...a lot :]


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thanks


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Thanks so much!! That was really helpful


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Thank you so much!


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thank you so much and im not bored to tears lol! sry im 14 i forgot to say that. i think i'm going to talk to them about it but i still feel like i cant tell her i have cut myself. but im pretty sure since im not addicted or anything that i can stop for good and be fine. it has only been a couple weeks. BUT if i do continue i will tell my mom or if my friend needs to she will tell my mom. thank you so much! :)


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thank you that was excellent


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thanks so much! your right and i want to ask you another question so be expecting one later :) and thanks


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thanks for the advice/wisom :)


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lol thanks for the help and yes i am out of high school lol....thanks alot:) it rly helped!!


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thx sooooo much the advice really helped!!!


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Thank you so much. You were quick to respond and gave an in depth and thought out answer. If I ever have any more questions on this matter or any other I will be sure to seek you out again.


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Thanks! That helped a lot and put it in a new perspective! An abstinence ring is a ring you where on your wedding finger and it has a scripture from the bible about staying pure until marriage. It keeps me accountable and is a promise to both myself and my future husband to not have sex until I'm married. I just entered high school so this summer my friends and i got one! and you really did help! thanx :)


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Thankyou so much. That really did inspire and help me. xx


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O Wow.. I told my Grandmother the same situation ot ask for her advice and she said the like exact SAME THINGG. She also believes Im going to grow up and become a school conselor. And shes never wrong =D Thanks this actually made me feel beter. I also talked to Eric, and told him to stop I also said it hurt me feelings when he did it, and He stopped =) So Williams saved on the bus Thanks Again.


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thia really helped alot-thanks-i never noticed how bad sittin on laps was...but im not dating him soo whats the matter?-i cant trust anyone now and i refuse a counselor or even asking for one i cant help it to much has happend from trust or counselor. but thanks


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wow thanks


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the best answer ever thank you!!!


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thanks. homecoming was fun..it wasnt very awkward at all. the only thing that sucked is that quite a few people had my dress. but whatev. much thanks!


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Yeah, that's what I don't understand... he says he hates his ex for cheating on him but before he cheated on me, he talked to her way more than he ever talked to me. But yet he INSISTS that he hates her for what she did. And then he goes and cheats on me. How hypocritical, right? Well anyway thanks so much for your advice.


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aww thanks =D


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Thank you so much for taking the time to write all that out. It helped a lot. I asked my mom about the legal issues just to make sure, and she looked into it, and since it is at someone's home it would be their resposibility if someone was to get hurt. (Not that I would want that to happen,) so that was a huge relief to me. And..I have figured out a way to occupy the kids, by puttin a movie that is age appropiate for everyone! Its been a real life saver! Anyways...best of luck on your pregnancy. Thank you so much, God Bless


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omg seriosuly thank you so much !!


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thank you so much! i felt like i shouldve told him more that he shouldnt get engaged but i thought i was doing the right thing staying out of it so now im more sure that it was the right thing to do thanks again :)


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You're answer was extremely helpful. (: Thank you, very much!


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thank you. i HAVE learned my lesson...hopefully not the hard way, but i have. Teach you kids this and use girls like me as an example. You hvae the 'Best Mother' award right now. Thanks so much




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