Good day everyone.
I am a nursing student. My ultimate goal is to be a travel nurse.
I am happily married for over 12 years and have 3 children: ages 6, 4, and 2. Family is the most important thing in the world and I want to help families work out problems so they do not have to be torn apart.
If your family is as important to you as mine is to me, get the help you need. If you do not like my advice, I respect that but look for someone that works for your needs.
Your family is worth it!
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My best friend keeps trying to steal my bf and she keeps yelling at me and bringing my other bff in to this and i want to know what to do before i beat her @$$ and kill her....
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I can hear the anger in your words and respect how hurt you may be feeling.
I cant give you any advice about keeping your friend away from your boyfriend but I can give you advice on how to control the one thing you have full control over... you.
If your best friend is capable of stealing your boyfriend, it sounds like you should reexamine first of all what kind of best friend she is. Perhaps it is time to move on and find some new friends, some that you can trust and don't cause so much stress in your life.
Secondly, if your boyfriend is capable of being "stolen away", he isn't really worth trying to keep. You don't want to spend the rest of your relationship with him wondering WHAT ELSE could come along that could tear the two of you apart. A relationship should be built on trust and confidence and enjoyment, not the stress of hoping he will stay with you when he encounters temptations.
Your friend and your boyfriend may be good for each other. You may just want to let them have each other so you can find a few new people who actually deserve to be in your life.
You should NOT be in a relationship with anyone, male or female, that constantly hurts emotionally (or physically) and it needs serious help if it is constantly "spiraling out of control".
You are worth more than that. Don't ya think? So treat yourself to better people. You deserve it. Don't "settle" because you are comfortable with it.
Best of luck.
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