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okay this is my first like real actual relationship and i've never been in love before...hence why im asking this question.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and i think im in love, i don't really know what love it but whenever im with him, i feel like thats where i wanna be forever and its corny but i always get those "butterflies" when im with him and thinking about him and he treats me like a goddess and he cares about me so much, and he proves it to me. I know its hard for someone else to have any say but what do you think? we haven't said I love you yet, I kinda want to but i want to make sure that i 100% mean it with all my heart before i say something like that
...any advice? or stories of when you said your first "i love you" and what happened? thankss.
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I would deffinetly say your falling for this boy.
the thing is, is that once most guys know that they have your complete affection, they get bored.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months, and looking back on our relationship in the beginning compared to now i can see how much our feelings have grown for eachother.
after a month or two of dating in texts and stuff we would say "love you" and such, but we never said it in person because its so much different saying it in person than it is through texts/aim, and when we said it through text i always meant it as i love you, your such a great person i'm so happy to be with you, but one day we were hugging and he was just like "i love you so much" and i couldn't say it back, i thought i loved him, but when i had to respond to that and couldn't i knew i wasn't completely in love with him yet... he said it to me a few more times after that and still i had no response, but after about 6 months i was able to say it comfortablly and know that i meant it and it turned out to be something really special instead of just throwing words around and i knew we both appreciated it more because i had waited to say it.
honestly, i don't think it is wise for you to say it to him first because it just confirms that he feels the same exact way about you if you let him say it first and its just more of a reassuring feeling to hear it from him first. WHen your in the moment, you'll know whether its right to say it back to him, if you open your mouth and nothing comes out than its not the right time no matter how much you think you do love him, but if the words do come out with you thinking twice about it, thats when you know its real.
if you don't overthink it, the moment will be much more special :] hope i helped
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