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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.
I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)
Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo
A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)
God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler
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so for the first time in a long time, i really feel like all my friends have moved on from me. they either got bored, or found someone better. i am usually very confident and happy, i'm just shy with new people. i'm not sure what to do with myself anymore. also, i'm drifting from all my best friends; especially one that i've had for 11 years. (i'm 15 , shes 17). i feel like i can't relate to anyone anymore, many of my friend's changed. if anyone has gone through this, what did you do to cope? any help on this would be appreciated, thankyou so much
Coincidentally I'm right now dealing with this, though I've dealt with it in the past as well. Its actually really hard to cope with this kind of thing, and being shy about meeting just makes it harder. I know, cause I have a weird phobia against people I don't know. We all have to understand change will always happen, for better or for worse.
But sometimes you just have to figure out a way to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people. Its hard, I know, but relating to someone isn't just what being a friend is all about. If you can believe in the concept "Opposites attract" than you can sort of relate to more people than those who are like you. Variety is a far better thing than straight line relations. The best way I find to cope with this, is still try to be friends with whom I still have, and still make other friends. True friends will never drift away, and even if they become separated their memories still remain in their hearts.
This is really the only way I've found to deal with losing friends over time. That, and I just learn to move on and accept life for what it is. Let the past be the past, and focus on today and tomorrow. Those are the times when things count most.
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thank you for your advice ! hopefully we can both get through this, thank you so much :]
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