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16/f.

theres this one kid who likes me like alot, he always calls me and texts me but i just dont feel the same way about him. and whenever he says stuff, i just dont respond back to it.

what should i do.
i dont want to hurt his feelings..
but i also dont want to lead him on..

You'll eventually have to hurt his feelings somehow. The best way is to just tell him straight foward that you only see him as a friend. Do this if you dont want to lead him on. Now what I would do since im a coward, is just ignore his calls sometimes. Like sometimes pick up and sometimes let it ring. And if he gets the courage to ask you out, just tell him "Sorry, Im not ready to be in a relationship right now". And just act normal around him.

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(Rating: 5) thanks that is a good idea.

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