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Okay so Saturday was Old Home Day, and I was hanging out with Becky,Steven,Abby,Emily,Kim,and Abbys lil brother. Well at the moment Beckys dating Steven but she doesnt like him, she just didnt want to hurt his feelings.Well we were all hanging out I guess I was flirting with Steven... Becky couldnt careless though so Im not worried about that. In town, Steven baught me fries and we traded a 20 for 2 tens and the guy who gave us the two tens was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around your finger!"Because Steven gave me ten bucks and told me he'd be right back he was gunna go buy some icecream. And I was like =O Hes not my boyfriend! And the guy was like Even better..
And at Byrant Feild I wore Stevens sweatshirt, and we hung out more then he and becky did.
Well Abby wouldnt get off my case, she kept saying that Steven liked me, and that I liked Steven... and Steven ended up saying that If I asked him out seriously he would have a hard time saying no to me.. right infront of me.
Okay so i thought me and Steven were ust friends but I was telling Kim what we did to make Abby think that we liked eachother which was I play with his feet =]] Tugg on his leg hair. We wrestle, and play mercy which is really painfull btw. He layed on me...
Yes I wear his sweatshirt, and he buys me food. Were always talking and he's my best guy friend. Well Kim was like I wish I had one of those.. and I was like.. one what? and she was like Flirt Buddy =DD Cuz thats exactly what you are.
I dont mean to flirt with Steven.. but is that what im doing?
Should I tell Steven Becky doesnt like him?
Even though I really didnt mean to flirt with Steven, does that mean I like him?

I think you should back off a bit...
Having a "flirt buddy" is fine, but not when he is one of your friend's boyfriends, even if she does not like him that much. You were wearing his sweatshirt and he was laying on top of you. Even if I did not like my boyfriend that much, I would still be a little ticked that that was happening. If she does not care or like him, then why is she still with him? Obviously he does not like her as much as she thinks he does. So it should not hurt him that much if she breaks up with him. He will probably think of it as help so he could flirt with you more. Nobody could answer if you like him or not, but it seems a lot like you do, and until Steven and Becky officially break up, you should stop flirting with him so much.

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(Rating: 4) Becky really doesnt care. I talked to her about it because Abby was like =Owhen steven was on me. And he pinned me to the ground so I couldnt exactly help it and she said that she couldnt careless. But I cant help not flirting with him I didnt even know I was.. =X I suck at being a girl.

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