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my bf and i have only had sex twice, but we havent ever really gotten to finish. A) it takes him forever to get it in, and B) his family always calls him down to do chores and stuff even if im over there.
but thats not really the point...i lost my virginity on the 26th of last month and then we did it again today and both times he didnt seem to be getting any pleasure at ALL. i dont expect me to get any considering it just NOW got to where it doesnt hurt as much, but is there something wrong with me "down there"?? like, am i doing something wrong? i have no experience and neither does he, really but all im doing is laying there and i dont think he minds doing all the work. but i dont do oral sex or handjobs.
but like is there something i could do (besides the above) that would make the experience a little more pleasurable for him? is there some medication i can take or something?
or is it because we're kinda young? (we're both 15) or does it have something to do with your "soulmate" or whatever?
im confused and i need answers, so any advice is appreciated!! :)
To me, it sounds like you're both just young & nervous. I highly doubt you're doing anything wrong, so please don't worry yourself over that.
Have you asked him if it feels good for him?
Are you two using lube? That can make things a lot easier and more pleasurable for both of you.
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he told me he wasnt getting anything and we're using lubricated condoms.
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