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I need some advice FAST I want to know what to do about my boyfriends son, I think he was molested by another boy when he was younger. He is on the verge of telling us. He is 22 yrs old. He has alot of rage inside of him, he has just beat up his girlfriend & talks of thoughts of killing people.
How do we handle this when he tells us (which I suspect is the molestation I mentioned) What is the appropriate thing to say & then do after the fact. He does not trust or like alot of people, I'm afraid of where he is headed
first of all you need to put him in professional care. not just a psychiatrist if he has thoughts of killing people. you need to get this girlfriend away from him because if his anger gets out of control, he'll hurt her worse than ever and no one wants that.
when he tells you, you need to calm him down. i'm guessing when he tells you he'll be looking for sympathy considering that face that he's decided to open up. so give him what he wants. if he wants to close the discussion afterwards then don't force him.
do not blame him for not trusting people, he has all the right to and even if he gets professional help and all the anger is taken out of him, he'll still have trust issues
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much for your help