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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do?
Friends should always come first. However, sometimes you just need some alone time with your boyfriend so he doesn't feel neglected as well. I think you just have to sit down and think of how often you've hung out with one in comparison with the other.
If you hang out with her more, I think just talk to her about how she feels and let her know that you like to see him when you get the chance because you don't see him as often as her. Also, refrain from texting/calling him too much when you're with her - because that can make someone feel very pushed aside and it's also rude. Make time to talk to him on your own.
Also, maybe try inviting her to hang out with you when you're with your boyfriend? That way you can see both at once. Just try not to make her feel third wheel'd.
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Thanks for your help :) I talked to her and she's not angry she just misses hanging out so today we're gonna hang out just the two of us. I appricitate you answer.
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