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So my friend is starting to hang out with this girl i really hate. the hate part goes a long way back but i just know that the girl she is friends with now is so mean to both of us. Last year she called her and swore and was making fun of her and i stuck up for her. Now she is blowing me off. I told her that i really hated the girl and she blew up at me saying stuff like while shes my friend now so back off. And when another one of my friends went out with this boy who she did not like she told it to her face. and i mean bad! What should i do?!?! (link)
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There isn't anything you can do about this. I know this isn't what you want to hear. You probably want things back the way they were, with your best friend back and the other friend not dating a jerk. Unfortunately, you can't change other people's minds. I would just wait it out. Your friends will probably realize their mistakes eventually, and when they do, they will want someone to turn to for comfort from their hurt feelings. You can be there to comfort them (don't say "I told you so"...) and restart your friendships. What ever you do, don't keep trying to get your friend to leave the girl you don't like, and don't try to get your other friend to leave the mean guy. That will only make your friends resent you. Just try and tolerate it, and wait for the situation to change.
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Thanks! I guess i never thought of it that way.
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