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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.
I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)
Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo
A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)
God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler
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16 years old. never been in a relationship and never been kissed. not trying to sound stuck up or anything... but i don't think my appearance or personality is the problem. i don't know... is that weird? because it seems like i am the only one out of everyone i know who is in this type of situation...
I know how that feels. Its a terrible feeling, like no one actually likes you. And then you kinda get desperate.
Well, I want you to know that your not the only one that either feels or have felt that way. I personally don't know what it is that causes this, but I do know that its hard to deal with after awhile.
But trust me, its actually way better to wait then to rush anything. I mean, sure, if you get into several relationships through your life, you'll prolly have more experience in them. But it only makes things worse.
Its better to wait life is going to push way ahead. If you date someone way older than you, before you know it, they'll be in some out of state college and you have to find someone knew. If you date someone really young, its going to be the same reason, only your the one ahead. Other things like change, family, interests, and other things will affect early relationships, especially at your age.
Of course, if you really want to build a relationship with someone, you can always ask.
I know its actually better if the guy asks because its like some sort of rule in dating or something like that, but if the guy won't ask the girl is going to have to. Plus, I would like to note its better to date someone you know and trust with your life and world, than some hot or popular guy.
Otherwise, be proud your single while it lasts. You don't have to deal with as much drama and problems as those in relationships, that would have never worked in the first place, have to deal with all the time.
You have an entire lifetime ahead of you, so don't waste it thinking that just because you've never been kissed that your not good enough for society. Or that you HAVE to be in a relationship. Because there are much more important things than that at the moment.
Sorry for the lengthiness, I get very carried away and like to go to detail too often. Even though Ima "Keep-it-simple-stupid" kind of person. But just know your not alone, and you have other things to worry about and more than enough time for relationships.
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Thanks, I guess I just needed to hear that from a guy and not one of my friends.. its just hard sometimes you know?
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