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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.
I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)
Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo
A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)
God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler
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i have that problem where i don't express my feelings. not all feelings just upset. i don't show people that i'm upset. so. i have this guy who likes me a lot. we'll call him marvin. well marvin has asked me out a lot and he keeps wondering what my desision is. i keep telling him that i don't know. this other guy asked me out and we'll call him andrew. but i've been friends with him forever so i said no and he understands. but i think i like marvin but i can't make up my mind because i don't want to show my feelings. it's not that i don;t want to it't because i'm so used to hiding my feelings when i'm upset so i don't look like a wimp. so i don't know how i feel about this marvin guy. he;s really nice and funny. but maybe the fact that not a lot of people like him is part of it. some of my friends have dated him and they say he just bases relationships on public display of affection and when we break up he will make fun of me. he has done that to all of my friends but he swore that he liked me soo much and that he wouldn't do that if we broke up. i think i like him, i have one of my good friends giving me advice. he tells me a lot that helps. i know who i like but i don;t know if, why, and what for. i am really confused and i know whoever is reading this is probably really pissed of at this because it's so confusing and stuff. but i apologize. to help you help me i'll give you the main points.
1) I don't know if i should say yes to marvin
2) I don't know what i should do about this.
3) I don't know what, how, or how to express what i feel.
4) I'm desparate. any advice will help.
5) Thank you to whoever takes the time to answer.
It seems to me that "Marvin" isnt a very good pick at all. According to "all" your friends, hes been a bad choice from the beginning. Just because a guy says and swears he loves you doesnt always mean he does. I personally think you should say no.
What you should do is gather up as much information on him as possible, from your friends or other people. Know what other people know, because the greater opinion can be the more trusted one. After you think you have enough on him, think about it again, knowing what you've learned.
Its okay to be confused at something like this. All you have to do is try to take all the emotion and push it off somewhere for even a little bit, so you have some time to think things through...
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Your advice helped me, a lot. please keep on giving advice because you really can relate to the fact on helping. thank you so much. i appreciate it.
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