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Hi,

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2. 18 at the moment
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When I was little and did something bad, my parents used to beat me with a leather belt, however, they only did that when I did something bad (threw a tantrum, talked back rudely, wouldn't listen, etc). When I got these whippings, they hurt (a lot, like somebody slashing your butt numerous times with hot sharp knife).

In my parent's country, that was just the way you disciplined children who were bad. But they did it here, in the USA. (So I really believe they thought they were doing the right thing.)

Now, my last whipping was when I was 11 (I'm 17 now), but I was just wondering, was that abuse? And my parents are wonderful parents and I love them a lot, so don't tell me to report it or something.

Also, my brother never got that punishment,no matter what horrible thing he did, which makes me feel kind of like my parents don't like me as much.

I don't know. I would just like some feedback. Tell me what you think. Oh, and I'm a girl.

well it depends on your parents beliefs. my mom is from russia and the first impression you get from that is "soviet and tough" but she never hit me because that wasn't her belief. i think that your parents were just brought up that way. plus america is very laid back and easy going and the punishments here are absolutely nothing. i mean if your mom slaps your hand for touching something that you shouldn't have been touching, you can file for child abuse and a big deal is made of nothing.

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(Rating: 5) Lol I'm Russian too!!! Thanks for your feedback!

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