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Ok, so 15/f...
I get along with pretty much everyone in my class. But, there's this one girl who just goes out of her way to bother me =( It's like effecting my self esteem. I don't understand why she acts this way. Like, I'll just be sitting there and she'll say something funny so I'll laugh and next thing I know she's all like "Did I tell you you could laugh?!" Ugh I hate her. But I can't just ignore her because I feel so totally stupid and self-conscious because of the way she calls me out in front of everyone =(
Any advice? (link)
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Well she's a bitch. Totally don't worry about her, and I mean your not being bullied but you should look up on Google.com "Kristina Calco" and read her story about what happend.
She commited suicide because of things like this, but her condition was WAY worse. So its good your at least on this, because your talking about it and we're all here to help, and we're on your side(:
And, she's probobly doing that because she's jealous of you, and she probobly says things like "Did I tell yoiu you could laugh?!" Because she feels like, you won't say anything back to her, so she can say what she wants, which she can't. If I were you I would say "Oh kay, whatever.." and give her some sass,
and see what she does. If she EVER gets physical with you, TELL SOMEONE RIGHT AWAY. Or if she threats you do that to! You could also try to make friends with her, but sometimes people don't understand that that doesn't always work. You could also have a friend with you that you trust, and will help you stick up for yourself? A lot of people have self esteem issues all over the place, so don't feel alone!
Even I do. Everyone is insecure, or at least most normal people. But anyways, I know the feeling of being called out infront of everyone, but call her out to. Say something that you know will make her look way more stupid. Look at it through her point of view, and if you said that to someone, think of a comeback you would hate for someone to say to you. If that makes sence. And use it! Dont let her walk all over you.
I hope something really helped!
Best of luck! :DD
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Rating: 5
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Thanks! That made me feel so much better =)
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