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Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year & a month . But i just like dont trust him , well i mean i trust him i just dont like him around girls ''/ idk why , he has never done anything to make me not trust him. He trusts me , and doesnt care if i go anywhere with my girls and there's guys around but i dnt like him going anywhere where girls are . I want us to have a great relationship but i just cant help it . I just always think about girls trying to flirt with him or this and that . He's told me before that im the Only one for him , he's in love with me and he doesnt want anyone else but i just dont know whats wrong with me . I have came a very long way with jelousy from the start. But like when his friends want to do stuff they usually have girls with them & sometimes i cant go so i dont want my boyfriend to & deep down i kno thats not fair from keeping him from having fun just because i cant , even though he'll let me . We have talked about over and over , dont tell me to talk to him about it because we have . TELL ME WHAT [ I ] can do , because he's done all he could . thanks
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All I can say is to just let him go even though you don't want to. Just let him. Even if every fiber of your body doesn't want to, just do it. Once you do it more, you will get used to it. It's hard to be jealous for no reason, and you can't just change your jealousy... it's probably going to be there for a while. Try hanging out with him and other girls. Note when or how they flirt with him, then get over it. Tell yourself you don't care. Eventually you won't. If he does something in the future, then you can fret about it, and you will be able to see it better. I don't know if this helped, but I hope it did. Good luck...
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yeah , you helped. I had the same idea of just letting him go even if i just wanna scream . ill see how everything goes thanks .
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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Salt Lake City Utah Occupation: school (student) Age: 17 Member Since: July 3, 2005 Answers: 304 Last Update: August 22, 2010 Visitors: 26993
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