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Q: ok im a 16/f. i first had sex right when i turned 15. im currently not sexually active but i probably will be soon. i dont think that i have ever had an orgasm and i dont know if my cherry has ever been popped. when i first had sex i didnt bleed and i have bled twice from getting fingered but it lasted about two days, and it was after i started having sex. my now boyfriend thinks it is weird that i dont and thinks he is doing something wrong. it feels great when i get fingered but i just cant seem to "get off". any help? don't tell me to google it. thanks guys.
It is hard for some girls to reach climax, and it can take a long time sometimes too. For a guy, they hit climax fast. So my suggestion is to do a lot of pre-talking and foreplay. If he does things to help you along before you get to the sex part it should help. He just needs to get you a lot more aroused before the sex. I hope this works, and that it answered your question. Good luck with the...sex thing...

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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