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alrightt. i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but he likes to move fast. and im get nervous about a lot of things. i made out with him the first night i met him and knowing thats the way he is everytime he wants to come over i get a weird feeling cause i only have known him for about a week and i feel like if he comes over we are going to have sex. and i dont want to be put in that akward situation. id rather wait get to know him. and take it slow. no regrets. i need to know how i can tell him i want to take it slow and not rush things. and it would be akward if i call him and say i do want to fuck youu right now. lmao !
pleasee [&&] thankks ! [;

You could try a few different ways, but I'm not sure how you'll like them.

A) Fake a temporary STD. "Uh, I have Flamingvaginaitis. Yeah, its contagious and I'm going to have it until I get to know you better so we might as well take it slow."

B) If he comes over and tried to have sex be like "Um, no thanks." Just plain and simple. If he keeps trying be like, "Dude, get off my bed or get out of my house."

C. You could the the polite way. "I really just want to get to know you right now, as cliche as that sounds. So can we please just stick to kissing until I'm comfortable with this?"

D. The sarcastic way. You two start making out and he hints at sex, you say: "Shouldn't I like meet your mom first?" orrrrrr, "Shouldn't I atleast know your middle name before we do the nasty?"

E. Be assertive and up front. "Hey, you wanna come over? We can hang out, watch a movie, and not have sex. Cool? See you soon."

Good Luck!

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