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ok so we just got back to school on wednesday because of winter break..and of course i hadnt talked to some ppl over break because well it was break..when i got back, i really wanted to talk to my friend kevin because i hadnt seen him in so long.well i actually really really like him and i missed him..anyway..on wednesday he smiled at me but that was really the only time he really acknowledged me..on thursday at lunch i looked over at his table and smiled and he kinda smiled back but then he like stared off into space and i could tell he was really thinking about something but idk what. then i was walking like right behind him and i know he saw me because he turned around and half glanced at me but didnt say anything.friday morning i was walking to 1st period with my 2 guys friends and we passed him but and he smiled at me but at lunch he didnt look at me once..[usually during lunch we smile at each other alot and he gives me alot of attention]..then when i passed him in the hall we made eye contact for like 3 seconds but then he kept looking straight foward and i could tell he was trying not to look in my direction.

i dont get why hes acting like this at all..i didnt do anything in the past 3 days to make him mad or not want to talk to me..i dont understand it even more because all of his friends would talk to me during the week.i cant stand it when he wont talk to me and it drives me crazy..i just get all upset and now i have to wait until monday to talk to him..that is if he even will talk.do you have any ideas as to why he wont talk to me?

any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

So I'm thinking, maybe there's a chance that he likes you. Does he know that you like him? If he got the message that you do in fact like him, he may just be in fact shocked and likes you you too but doesn't quite know how to react to this or respond.

Try talking to him, ( don't have to bring up that you like him) just talk to him like you usually do. Try saying: So ______ (his name) what's going on we haven't talked in awhile whats going on with you. This maybe give him an ultimatum and it takes the awkardness of this situaution, and that you are indeed comfortable talking to him.

So really, I think that he may have found out that you liked him and he doesn't really know how to respond to this, it seems like he likes you though. So check up with him, see whats going on between the two of you and see what he says. Don't let words go unspoke, you'll regret it later. Hope I hepled/

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