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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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Well i get really shy around guys i like and i'm wondering if there are any ways i could try and become less shy because when i talk to a guy i like i find that i have nothing to say so it's awkward. I really want to be less shy...but another reason i dont get very close to guys is because i am 19 and i have never kissed a guy so i feel weird getting close to someone because i am scared to kiss them because i am scared i am going to mess it up. any ideas of what i can do to get over my shyness????

You and I both. Hehe. I think it's that we are afraid of letting guys into our lives? No idea. Just next time you see a guy, forget that he is a guy. Just treat him like you treat your other friends. After all, he is a normal human being. And about never kissing a guy, its perfectly normal. I know lots of girls who have never kissed a boy. Although I'm only 16, I have also never kissed a boy. But you cannot look for a boyfriend. Don't seem desperate because that can be very unattractive. Good luck, let me know how it goes. :D

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