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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

advice

Okay, so I've been single for well, a long time and the only two boyfriends I had, well, it wasn't much different from just being friends with them. Which means:
1. I haven't had my first kiss.
2. I get nervous and shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.

About a week ago I started going out with my current boyfriend. And he actually wants to do stuff with me, like, he invites me to his house and puts his arm around me and stuff.
He had another girlfriend that he went out with for a long time, so I'm sure he knows how to be a good boyfriend.
The thing is, I'm not really sure about how to react to that stuff. Like, I want to be a good girlfriend, but I don't know how. Like, I think he wants to kiss me, but when I think about it, I don't know how to go about doing it.

I never really was nervous about kissing anyone. It just never striked me as a big deal. I basically just go with the flow with everything. If hes gonna kiss you, hes gonna kiss you, and it just kind happens, and you'll be like, oh that wasn't a big deal. Just put your arms around him, or your hand on his face or something. First kisses are always kinda weird. (:

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the pointers, I'll keep that in mind :)

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