Good day everyone.
I am a nursing student. My ultimate goal is to be a travel nurse.
I am happily married for over 12 years and have 3 children: ages 6, 4, and 2. Family is the most important thing in the world and I want to help families work out problems so they do not have to be torn apart.
If your family is as important to you as mine is to me, get the help you need. If you do not like my advice, I respect that but look for someone that works for your needs.
Your family is worth it!
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14/f. I've been single for nearly a year, which I don't have a problem with, but me and this guy have sort of started talking. I've never kissed anyone, though a guy came close to kissing me at homecoming, then the song ended and he walked away. I'm not very assertive, in the whole relationship field, so if me and the guy I'm talking to, or another one for that matter, in the future, started dating me, and we were going to kiss each other, how exactly do I kiss? And I don't want to make the first move for my first kiss, but later, if I did want to kiss someone, how would I make the first move on him? I'm sort of clueless and just trying to be prepared. My friends have already had their first kisses, so I'm the oddball, they say it comes naturally, but the guy that was gonna kiss me at homecoming was starting to lean in and I had no idea what to do! So, help is appreciated greatly :) Sorry for the length. (link)
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Well I think it's nice you haven't had a first kiss yet. Too many girls rush into things with guys and that is a shame.
Hopefully you are a girl with strong morals and a strong self image. You can kiss without going any further. If this is the case, I don't mind telling you... your first kiss is going to be the most terrifying, terriffic thing to happen to you in your early teens! I think you are right NOT to initiate it. This keeps you a lady. If you initiate it, the boy can get the wrong idea that you are much more forward than you are.
As far as "how to kiss"... since the boy is going to initiate it, you should probably just softly close your eyes as he comes near you and makes contact. After that, go with the flow. You will know if you are comfortable parting your lips or not. Possibly for your first time you may not want to do this. But be ABSOLUTELY sure this is what you want with and WHOM you want it. I am pushing 30 and still remember EVERY detail about my first kiss. You don't want it to be with the frog faced little monster down the road who eats worms (for example). Make sure he is worth the memory of a lifetime!
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