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Q: i used to like this guy and he liked me too ( lets call him mightymiller)for a long time. then all of a sudden we stopped talking to each other and started disliking each other. and for a long time i kept thinking about him and imagining we were dating even though i wanted nothing to do with him. and everyday on aim i wish he would start a conversation with me so i wouldnt have to talk to him first because i was afraid he would block me or say something hurtful to me. and even though i cant stand him i still wish we could talk. and part of me wants to talk to him first and tell him he made me mad because he stopped talking to me and stopped being rude to me because my friend told her crush that exact same thing and now he talks to her. and i hear if i ignore him for a long time he'll want to start talking to me because he doesnt want to be ignored. so my question is should i ignore him and wait for him to talk to me first or should i talk to him first and tell him how i feel? is ignoring him the right thing to do? and am i really over him if i want to talk him so bad and cant stop thinking about him? and what is this feeling that i have like i cant stop thinking about him but i dont want him?

I think you should go for it and tell him how you feel. I mean the worst that will happen is that he'll be a jerk and then you'll know at the same time that he obviously was the one causing the problem in the first place.

And there isn't anything wrong with ignoring him, the only thing that really is on the bad side is that you go on feeling like you should and always wonder. So, you should satisfy your curiousity by doing the brave thing.

You seem to have some feelings for this guy, but if he happens to reject you, the feelings and thoughts about being with him will fade overtime. I promise this.

So go for it, say, "hey can we talk?" and go from there. You have nothing to lose.

-TheTeenGirl

Rating: 5

and this guy also has a girlfriend( yet again)

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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.

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