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i really like this boy we are really good friends.. theres sort of an age diffrence between us.. well 3 years. i wanna ell him so badly but everyone tells me i shouldnt.. cause then itl ruin our relationship... i dont know what to do i liked him since last year and im so tired of keeping it in .. i really wanna tel him but im scared he might not act or be the same maybe not even talk to me please help ? (link)
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It really makes a difference what your ages actually are, not just how far apart. If he's 17 and you're 14, I'd call that an insurmountable difference, and you'd better just wait. If he's 20 and you're 17, that can be done, though you might have one or two issues with it. If he's 23 and you're 20, then it's no big deal at all.
I'm going to guess by the tone of your question that you're around 13-15 years old. That being the case, I recommend you keep it to yourself. He really won't be able to do anything about it, even if he returns those feelings in some way, because such a relationship would be frowned upon (and, in some states, it's actually illegal). I suggest you remain "really good friends", and I also recommend that you keep in mind that you may never be anything besides that. Don't close your mind to other possibilities.
Hopefully, in a few years, you'll be able to tell him how you feel and he will be in a position where he can return whatever feelings he may have. If you're 15 or younger, though, now is just not the time.
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lol im 13 hese 16 rlly.. lol best advice .. seriously. thank you so much!
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