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I'm 16 years old and a junior in high school. I like giving advice so feel free to ask me any questions. Everybody has been through different situations and I could try and help you by what I've gone through. Ask away :)
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So i feel like im loosing my friends i have currently. I have these other friends who i am getting kind of close to. And i made new friends who are friends of my friends. Now two of the people im getting close to I've known since i was a little girl. These friends arent the best, they smoke, they drink, its all about sex. Im not saying i dont drink but i only do it ocassionally. I really would love to hang out with thme because they are real friends, they stick up for me & listen & help me out. But im not up for the whole partying thing, thats basically all they do & know. I would have no problem going to a party, but i just dont get it. I dont know what to do. should i still be friends with them, should i dump them as friends and get different ones, should i talk to them about it? i dont know. any help would be nice. (link)
I would say personally I wouldn't hang out with them. They would be bad influences in my life. They may be your real friends but if partying and drinking and such is all there life, they aren't gonna go very far and successful with their life. You can still be friends with them but you don't have to dump them like that. Just don't hang around them that much and find some friends that appreciate who you are (not that they don't) and are good influences. You can say hi and such to them but find some good close friends. You know what I mean? Like don't be mean to them and if they ask anything about you not hanging out with them anymore just say that you aren't really into partying alot. And if they accept you because of that, thats when you dump them. But I hope everything works out for you.


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thanks so much.
i guess i left out that
one of the kids ive known for long
i kinda have a thing for him. but thats
okay you really helped.




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