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Q: My past boyfriend cheated and lied to me alot, the lying was on a daily basis. We broke up after 7 months of this. Its been three weeks since the break up, and he does everything in his power to flirt in front of me with all my friends. I try not to let it bother me, I really do; but it makes me so angry! I don't acknowledge it until I get home and I just get so frustrated and take it out on my family. I can't get my friends to realize that he's a liar and a cheater, he's just playing them! I'm not sure what to do, he's driving me insane!
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Your anger is so normal to be feeling and the way you are handling it isn't wrong. Your friends are in the wrong for even thinking to talk to this guy in front of you. And for those friends are are doing that to you deserve to be lied to, honestly, these are very untrue friends.
Just remember that this guy only feeds on you watching him flirt and be upset. What you need to do is get away. If your in the same class, he is invisible, as hard as that is, you have to convince yourself that he is nothing. If your friend is off flirting with him and falling for his lies, let her fall for it. Just don't be there to watch it.
I would also consider thinking about your real friendships. If these friends mean something to you, you need to tell them that you are very hurt by this and that if it continues, you will keep your distance with them. If you want to get away from him, you need to get away from them, the ones who are involved with flirting with him.
As for coming home to your family, you should really think about the fact that home is where you want to be because it's not where this guy is. Maybe you should talk to someone or do something that relieves your anger without damaging people or effects the way you act. Maybe writing, poetry, punching a pillow, any of that could work. I hope this helps:)
-TheTeenGirl
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Thank you, I'll try to keep your answer in mind next time I have to encounter him.
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82342
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