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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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Let' me start out with saying sorru if i picked the wrong category!

mmkay well,
im 14/f
and ive only had one b/f
and it lasted a week,
why: b'cause we wanted to get to know eachother,
i was like 13 then and it was when i first turned 13 at that, im almost 15 i have about three more mounths left anyways,

i havent had a b/f since then me and that boy just didnt talk and im fine with that
i have had some crushs but none i really wanted to be with and like lately ive been thinking,
and i want to start dateing, but i only like the top of the line boys LIKE: thay have to be very cute or fine and if there not i dont want to get in to it ive been asked out by alot of boys but i always turn them down because that isnt what i want, i know you dont have to even ssay that is wrong and very rude but thats just how it is,
at the beging of this year this boy started to like me and we where best friends and i kinda liked him but i wasnt sure so i didnt even try,
well see ive been thinking of him alot lately and like he is the first person on my mind when i wake up and when i check my, my space i always hope to see him on line or have a reply from his message, but i dont really know if i like him,

and i dont know what to do,
i want to stop just likeing the top of the line boys i want it to be okay to like cute boys :)
and how could i tell if i do like him or maybe i just want him because im lonely?
if you have anything like anything PLEASE let me know

Its deffinitly not rude to turn down guys, unless you do it in a rude way. Its perfectly fine that you haven't had a boyfriend in a while, your just making sure he's the right guy. But, its not bad to "test the waters" before finding him. When you said you want to be okay with cute boys, i'm assuming our a picky girl, and like her boys a certain way? I'm the same. Its ok to be like that. I say give this guy a chance, dont go into it thinking its not going to work, because you never know. Just don't think about it at all, just...go for it. Hope i Helped!

-Brina

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(Rating: 5) aww thanks if i culd have rated it any higher i would have thnx im takeing your advice :)
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