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Q: so theres this new guy at my school thats super cute but i dont have any classes with him and i hardly see him during the day although he does play soccer and i play volleyball so he comes through the gym everday! but anyway theres this dance coming up this friday and i want to ask him if he wants to go with me to the dance. i dont know much about him because i hardly see him but my friends that have classes with him say hes really down to earth, funny,and nice and thats excactly what i want in a bf! i say hi to him in the hall ways and i talked to him a couple of times and he does seem like all the things my friends said he was. its jus i really wanna go to the dance with him so i can get a chance to know him better.i also dont want to wait to long that someone that knows him better decides to ask him and he says yes! i really dont want that to happen becuase he is really attractive and sweet and funny!i just wanna know how i can ask him out to the dance. i hav something in my head but i wanna hear some other suggestions!!thanx!

ok first of all you need to build up your corouge and ask him...what could it hurt? what kind of world is this if you can't get out there and fight for what you want? and if it don't go as planed then you got to get back up on that peddistool and say "Maybe next time" so don't throw a pittyparty if indeed he says no...maybe he has reasons beyond explanation...guys are weird we never know what's gonna happen...just ask and see...oh and if he's hot tell me if he has a brother(just kidding)GOOD LUCK! Hope he says YES!

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