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Whatever your problem is, chances are I have dealt with it- either directly of indirectly- at some point in my life. I've worked as a Social Worker (with issues like mental illness, addiction, disabilities, eating disorders, etc.)

I've also taught school (to teens!)and have experience mentoring them.

In addition to that, I've lived in 4 different countries, many different cities, and worked jobs in all different fields from Software Sales to Fashion Designer.

This diverse life experience has given me knowledge on a wide variety of topics- which I hope I can put to good use here. :-)

So go ahead- ask away!

PS- I do not judge people or speak to them in a condescending way. However, I will be honest and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear.
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hi, im 14 and a month i haven'tstarted my period so im worried how can i make it come and i lied to my best friend saying i just started it i feel scared she may find out please help and i masturebate with random stuff in the toilet and i think i scratched myself in there when i fingered myself does this affect periods when you atart?
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clouded-blue is right, as soon as you DO get it, you will wish you hadn't!

As for your friend, no big deal. When a lot of girls first get it it's very sporadic. You might be it once and then not get it again for a few months or more. So don't worry about her finding out. And of course, you could also always just say that you made a mistake and thought you had it. So don't worry about it.

=)

Update:
sporadic means not predictable, as in there is no consistent, reliable pattern. Ex: someone who does side jobs but never knows when they'll get their next job could say that their jobs (and paychecks) are sporadic.


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thank you and whats sporadic?




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