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In addition to that, I've lived in 4 different countries, many different cities, and worked jobs in all different fields from Software Sales to Fashion Designer.
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im not sure if this is the right catergorie but still i need to know thngs....
ok well i finger myself but i can't seem to orgasm and i really want to orgasm and feel the plesure...
BUT why cant i orgasm and im only 14 and i have been doing this for a while nw like 2 or 3 months but i can NEVER orgasm and i havnt orgasmed once!!!
i need help strait away!!!
and wht is clit stimulation or somethng?/
and i dnt wnt any sites to go onto!?!
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! (link)
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Most women don't get their orgasms from vaginal stimulation (inserting in the vaginal opening). It can happen, but it's pretty difficult, and for some women it doesn't happen at all.
Usually a female orgasm comes from the stimulation of the clitoris- which has nothing whatsoever to do with the area that you're talking about. That's why you're not getting one. =)
To stimulate the clitoris, you first need to find it- that is if you haven't already. It's that strip of flesh that runs down the vaginal vertically (in other words, length-wise, not across). Most women have a little thing that hangs out, this is the skin that protects the clitoris because it's VERY sensitive. So it has like a little hood that covers it. If it were exposed all the time it would hurt.
Anyway, once you find 'the spot'- you will know by feeling around this strip- There will be one particular spot that feels really good. Once you get there, DON'T MOVE FROM THAT SPOT. Keep moving your fingers back and forth (side to side) over that area of the strip. The feeling will start getting better and better until eventually you climax. May take some practice to get there and get down the technique that's right for you.
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thanx it woz very helpful!! its long but helpful thnx alot and it seems like u have had MANY experiences!!
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