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"Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same."
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So... yeah.
I'm 16/F.. i'll be a senior next year (yes, i'm young for my grade.... 17 in september) and i've never had a boyfriend. I sort of had one freshman year, but it wa more of a... nothing, really. it was like we said we were going out, but we couldn't drive and we were like 14 and whatever. it was dumb.
Anyways, so i've only kissed two guys in my life. One was that not-boyfriend in 9th grade... and it was pretty much him jumping down my throat and i hated it. And the other was spin the bottle. Which was a good kiss, but it obviously didn't mean anything. The bottom line is, i really want a boyfriend.
And that sounds shallow, i know it does. I've always been the girl who's always saying, "i don't want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. I want it to mean something." And i still want it to mean something... but i just want it to happen sooner rather than later.
My friends always talk about who hooked up with who, most of them have already had sex, (with at least one person... in several cases more than that) and i really feel like i missed the boat. I'm not gorgeous. But i'm not ugly...i see weirder girls with boyfriends. And i mean, i'm not the most confident girl around, but i'm not completely introverted. I'm just not sure how to go about meeting someone and having a relationship that will last... at least until i go to college. Another problem, more like inconvenience, is that i don't drink. so i don't go to a lot of the parties everyone else goes to.
I know what i like in a boy. Funny, clever, smart, goodlooking... perfect? is that too much to ask? I had a dream last night. I was rooming someplace... a hotel or a dorm room or something. And there was this slim boy with dark hair next door. He brought me to his room and we just hung out. Played video games.. whatever. I dont' remember a lot, but there was a lot of laughing and smiling... a some cuddling. And i was so happy... probably the happiest i've been in a long time.
Is it so bad to want that feeling to be real? Am i too picky? am i asking too much?
How can a meet the boy of my dreams? litterally.
Any advice?
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Hi. This might seem weird if i told you my age so i won't. But I've felt this way before and i know, it really really stinks. you feel like....why THEM when i'm better? and then you think, well, i can't be harsh....but o come on! and you just dig yourself into a hole. and i can't tell you where to find your dream boy. no one can because no one knows. but there's some guy out there who wants a girl. Who is funny, clever, smart, goodlooking....just like he is. and one day you will probably find him. dating is when you find someone that you think is close. close enough to try. so when you go to the beach, put on a bikini or something (guys kinda get more confident when someone looks sexy...or flirty...but just don't get trashy, lol. i don't think you would, but just saying). and be a little more confident than you normally are. if you're good at small talk, strike up a conversation. you might find a guy good enough to try. always keep your eyes open. in today's world, "always brush your hair" figurativly. again, i can't give you roadmap directions to your guy. i would if i could. just have fun and be flirty and confident and do what you think is right. your guy will come. don't worry. currently i am also looking for a guy. actually, i know who i want, but....well, that's a different story. Best of luck to you!!
-SlushPuppy
P.S. Heh, I'm 14.
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