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Hii i'm Andy, short for ANDRELLA.I'm 20. Born in LONDON, lived a Sweden, then came to NEW YORK CITY when i was around 14. I love new york, its the best, but i do miss Europe every once in awhile. I speak English, French, and Arabic. I'm 1/4 Swedish, 1/4 Lebanese, and 1/2 Italian. I'm very social and outgoing, i love to go out and have fun. Ask me anything and i'd be glad to help you out.Xo. Andy.
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This may sound SOO televisioness but it's my life and its full of drama Im in florida right now with my family and my grandparents. I came to Florida to get away from all the drama where im from. Well on the way there I have Eric calling me saying he wants me to come back so i was like you have someone. You dont need me. He said he broke up with my best friend, D. Well i hung up on him and called her and she was crying saying its not far how i have 2 boys Josh and Eric that both like me and not one likes her. I said i had no idea he was dumping her and that i never liked Eric and never will. She accepted my apoligy and we came up with an idea to get him back. I apoligied for hanging up on him and he told me he was already in Florida! He told me his grandparents are friends with mine and that he's staying in there cabin thats across the street from mine gradparents. Well when I got there me and him are sharing a room, and im on a lap top right now. Our plan is that im saposed to pretend to like him and have him fall deeply in love with me and then when i get back from summer break kiss Josh (which he will definetly not mind :) and break hi heart like he broke D's. Well so far today rocked! it was the first day that me and eric have been away from my parents and grandparents and we got icecream and built a huge sand castle and i loved it... Eric still has no idea im using him right now but I wanna tell him without losing my friendship with my BFF its so confusing i know but I think i like him.. Ive been here a week with him and im already breaking my best friends heart if she found out that tonight, I wanna sneak out of his grandparents cabin ( that were in alone.) and go swimming with him at like 3 in the morning.. yeahh i already have it all planned :)
my question is how do i kep the guy and teh best friend because i dont want D mad and i couldnt live without Eric.
Help me!!
Your definitely in a difficult situation and hte way i see it there are a ton of situations. What if you just kinda hung out wtih eric for now on and go along with the plan as normal, and then eventually tell your friend that you feel a little guilty for doing it and think you should stop. Try putting it lightly to her at first so tis not a big deal, then see what happens. Take it day by day. In a way its gonna be soo hard to get both of what you want, so good luck, and i hope it works out:)
(Rating: 4) thanks and thats the best advice ive had on this so far. But i told Eric last nigt and he hasnt talked to me sence.. And I also told D its not far and shes not talking to me. And it was her idea!!! i think hes gunna talk to me but i dont know