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okay there are these 2 girls.. not necessarily popular or unpopular. one of them i used to think was okay then she turned really fake and i just really disliked her. the other one she always was like pissed at me. and we were in the same cooking group.. this was before i knew problems would arise.. btw its a cooking group for my 7th grade home ec class. one of the other girls in my group is like on everyone's side but sticks to side of the girl who's always pissed at me. the other one is my friend but shes also kinda on everyones side. anyways in my yearbook i colored on the fake girl's picture in green, and wrote 'fake ogre' next to it. then i drew horns and ugly glasses and a mustache. i did the same to the 'pissed off' girl except i didnt color her in green cuz i didnt feel like it. then today that girl (not the pissed one, the other one who i colored on) asked to sign my yearbook. i didnt want her to, but im like... ok.. i should have said i had like no room left which would be true, but i guess i didnt. so she checked through the yearbook cause some girl told her what i put in the book and she wanted to see. then in home ec she said all these little side comments about it and was like "did you make ___ an ogre too?" she was talking about the girl who was kinda on everyone's side (not my friend, the other one) then i said no. really i dont care if im her friend or not. im really a nice person.. alot of my friends are shocked i did that to their pics but what can i say i was really mad at them and saying sorry wouldnt change the pictures nor would it actually be a sincere apology. i also dont care if they do something bad to my picture.. cause i dont need to be friends with them. by the way tomorrow is the last day of school.. um what do you think of what i did? was it totally crazy or can you like.. relate, and what do i do if they get all up in my face about it? cause yeah i dont care.. but i wanna know if what im doing is right, and what the proper response should be to this.

I understand your position and that you wanted to rid yourself of anger by drawing on their pictures, and truthfully I think you are pretty mature for your age, but as you age and grow more mature you are going to wonder why you have made markings on their pictures. As the years keep on coming you aren't going to want to be at war with anyone at all. It's best to stay on good terms with people even if speaking your mind seems like the solution. You may speak your mind, but after you have said what you felt had a purpose, it is time to be civilized.

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(Rating: 4) i guess so, but i can be civilized if they were civilized to me. if they didnt like me, they should have atleast not be so rude about it, then most of their problems wouldnt have happened. so basically they brought it upon themselves i guess

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