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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

advice

ive liked this guy on and off for a while now. like umm 5 months? and he never liked me in all this time. hes my best friend so i just got over the fact that we cant be more. everyone thinks we are together though because we like hold hands and not to mention we're always together. even my english teacher asked him if we are dating! haha. the problem is that sometimes i feel like he wants to avoid me. maybe he just hates all the drama and is trying to aviod ppl annoying him about it. today he was just acting weird to me and then he was back to normal and then weird again. i dont understand it.
and worst of all he told our friends [that are guys] that hes a heartbreaker. then they asked if he was talking about breaking jennys heart and he said no. he said he broke my heart. and i was right there when he said it. and they laughed at me. then they asked if im jealous that he made out with his ex. wtf?!? i hate it. its hard enough trying to see him as just a friend but why is he doing this to me now? hes been such a good friend to me up until this. i dont know whats happened. then i was walking with him and one of the guys until he started saying that he sends girls "mixed messages". he didnt say my name but he was talking about me again right in front of me. the guy asked what he meant. then he put his arm around me and said "like this". in my head i said hell no! and i just said bye walked away without looking back. hes so stupid that he didnt even know what he had just done. and we talked online and he asked why i walked away. then i said "when i liked you you hurt me and you make it into a big joke. its like you dont even care" and he logged off a minute later and never responded. i know he doesnt mean to be cruel because he probably thinks that its not a big deal, but it is. what should i do about this because at this point i have no idea anymore.thank you.

get over him. hes playing games with you, he thinks its funny, and hes trying to impress his friends how hes such a heartbreaker, and he can have whoever he wants, and so forth. ha, this like same thing happened to me. what i did, is went right along with it. i didnt make a big deal over it or anything. like, what he would do to me, is he'd be like to his friends "yeah, hayley really wants to bang me. she thinks im pretty hott and i had to tell her, that i cant do that, because i didnt wanna hurt her feelings" or something queer like that. when in reality, it was the exact opposite, he said that i was hot and wanted to bang me, and i turned him down. and i just played along with it, but i gave smartalic [cant spell it haha] remark back. and he just looked at me, and like got all embarrassed. kinda in a small way different then your problem. but you just gotta give it right back to him. yano? like dont get upset or anything, like laugh right along with them and everything. and then he'll stop.

if you really wanna get him mad, like one of his best friends :D

ha, or you could, coulddd, talk to him about it. and tell him how you feel. BUT THAT WOULD BE BORING. (:

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(Rating: 5) haha i dont even know you but already i like you. yea i know just the thing that'll shut him up. =]
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